Ibhes’deyi kamngan’ wami


My safety corner, fountain of honesty, lover of fine wine and my most bountiful pocket of knowledge.  She can be such a lazy bum – This one time she slept with a bowl of cereal next to her pillow for three days 🙂 🙂 🙂

Today we celebrate this gem, uMaZondi wami

Charmaine embodies so much authenticity. She is love – Unothando uXolile. You know, the unwavering love you as you are without your permission, gentle and present kind of love.  She is wisdom. An inclusive, fun, feminist whose presence fills the spaces she is in with an irresistible energy.

My friendship, YOU are all things amazing.

I remain in awe of the strides of courage you intentionally take to better yourself each day. It has been an absolute pleasure watching you allow yourself to transform, embrace the messy parts of self and bask in the freedom of who you are in every moment.

I pray that you allow this new year to be a reminder for you to trust in the magic of new beginnings. Occupy. Take a seat at the table. Shine. Learn and grow. I pray that you boldly and unapologetically rise up to Gods mighty call over your life. Move with excellence.

Stay weird – Mina ngikuthanda unjalo

Happiest of Birthdays strong, gentle and magical soul of mine

Ngikuthanda ingunaphakade!!!



“I hope you still feel small when you stand next to the ocean. Whenever one door closes, I hope another one opens. Promise me that you will give faith a fighting chance. And when you get the chance to sit it out or dance, I hope you dance.”

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